cycle three...complete!

so thursday marked the end of cycle three and also the halfway point of my treatment! yaaaaay!

although it is frustrating to know i still have another three cycles, which means six more visits to dana farber i am trying to look at from a glass-half-full perspective. chris and i have created a countdown calendar (82 days), and we've decided to start planning for things past october.

this past thursday i met my new doctor on her fellowship, dr. sarah. (she prefers to be called that as most people just butcher her last name) when i met with her she asked me about myself, asked about chris, and our wedding plans as my previous fellow, dr bhatt had told her about us. i had a little bit of a breakdown telling her about chris, our wedding, and the frustration of not knowing what the future holds and being scared to plan anything. she sat back and said something that really meant alot 'at some point you're going to have to start planning' and she's right, if i dont start looking forward to things, and thinking about our wedding, this stage in my life will never end, i will always be waiting for that other shoe to drop, waiting for this to come back and throw a wrench in all my plans again. and i have to keep the mind set that this is not coming back, i'm going to finish treatment on october 7th, and bid adieu to cancer. and chris and i are going to get married, we will have a house, we will get a puppy, we will go on trips and someday have babies.

i have discovered it is way too easy to wallow in the misery of all of this, to let this thing beat you down, to let the boredom get to you. i have to make a conscious effort to stay positive and to keep moving forward and that's what i'm doing, i dont see another option. well i do, but depressed and sad isnt a good look on anyone, especially me.